What happens if the person u're interested in tells you that he/she is not "ready for commitments"? Would you respect the person and just date each other out as "friends"? Are the both of you really just "friends"?
What does "Not ready for commitments" mean? How would you interpret such a "declaration"?
As our local society liberalises itself from the traditional, conservative doctrine, one would naturally get tempted to the 5 or 6 letter word - FLING(S). Such temptations, I personally believe, leave you curious and lusting (or otherwise) for more, especially if you are a night-life-lover like me.
Things get pretty steamy as you dance around in clubs, enjoying the fantastic company you have, and suddenly find yourself in in a den of wolves - that guys pratically zoom in on you as though they have been deprived all their lives. Many a time, it is in the slightest effort of one to just set your sight anywhere and be able to spot a couple busy grinding away...
Is this fair to the lady (that is, if you can even regard her as one)? Even my friends are having flings every now and then. EVEN THOUGH THEY'RE ATTACHED.
Blame it on my voyeurism - I think I love observing how people behave before/after they get drunk. And it's even more funny to hear from your friends about the silly things you did when you were drunk, after you're sober enough. Speaking of which, isn't it an excuse that people do things "beyond their boundaries" on the grounds that they were "drunk"? Or.. Is it a reason? If your partner betrays you as such, on grounds that they had drunk too much, would you gather that you will forgive him/ her? Is it then, fair to you yourself, who kept yourself in every way possible pure and chaste for your partner while he/she simply excuses him/herself conveniently with a "Sorry baby, I was drunk..."?
Would you want to go ahead and enjoy the night with someone whom you know is already attached? On one hand, you feel so much for the guy/girl who's left you asking for more; on the other, you know that if you really do cross that line, you will hurt the other party of your "fling". Which one will you choose? Moral, or your own pleasure (and that of your fling as well, of course)?
Am I ready for flings? Am I emotionally matured enough to handle the aftermath after a night of fun? I probably need to delve deeper before I may possibly come to a conclusion. Meanwhile, maybe i should have some harmless fun...
What does "Not ready for commitments" mean? How would you interpret such a "declaration"?
As our local society liberalises itself from the traditional, conservative doctrine, one would naturally get tempted to the 5 or 6 letter word - FLING(S). Such temptations, I personally believe, leave you curious and lusting (or otherwise) for more, especially if you are a night-life-lover like me.
Things get pretty steamy as you dance around in clubs, enjoying the fantastic company you have, and suddenly find yourself in in a den of wolves - that guys pratically zoom in on you as though they have been deprived all their lives. Many a time, it is in the slightest effort of one to just set your sight anywhere and be able to spot a couple busy grinding away...
Is this fair to the lady (that is, if you can even regard her as one)? Even my friends are having flings every now and then. EVEN THOUGH THEY'RE ATTACHED.
Blame it on my voyeurism - I think I love observing how people behave before/after they get drunk. And it's even more funny to hear from your friends about the silly things you did when you were drunk, after you're sober enough. Speaking of which, isn't it an excuse that people do things "beyond their boundaries" on the grounds that they were "drunk"? Or.. Is it a reason? If your partner betrays you as such, on grounds that they had drunk too much, would you gather that you will forgive him/ her? Is it then, fair to you yourself, who kept yourself in every way possible pure and chaste for your partner while he/she simply excuses him/herself conveniently with a "Sorry baby, I was drunk..."?
Would you want to go ahead and enjoy the night with someone whom you know is already attached? On one hand, you feel so much for the guy/girl who's left you asking for more; on the other, you know that if you really do cross that line, you will hurt the other party of your "fling". Which one will you choose? Moral, or your own pleasure (and that of your fling as well, of course)?
Am I ready for flings? Am I emotionally matured enough to handle the aftermath after a night of fun? I probably need to delve deeper before I may possibly come to a conclusion. Meanwhile, maybe i should have some harmless fun...
